Your Body Count Does Not Count

There's been a raging topic on social media recently that's caught my eye, and as someone who has seen it all, been through it all, and understands relationships from a unique vantage point, I feel it's time to weigh in. We're talking about the 'body count.' The number of partners one has been intimate with. For those trying to date the crème de la crème, the elite 2% of society, let me gently tell you that Your body count does not matter.

Why is there so much fixation on a number? The heart of this insecurity seems to be rooted in the fear of running into ex-partners, jealousy from the current partner, or the daunting dread of comparisons. But as you elevate your dating choices to those in the 2%, you'll find that these concerns will start to fade.

The 2% mindset is not anchored to your past; it's invested in the present and what lies ahead. A man in this bracket doesn't lose sleep over how many have come before him. Instead, he's more engrossed in understanding if you're mentally and emotionally aligned with him. Can you elevate his life further? Can you bring value to the table without the baggage of yesteryears? And by baggage, I don't just mean past relationships but substantial issues such as unresolved emotional turmoil, past transgressions that could affect the present or anything that is out of sync with a prosperous, forward-moving life.

Let's debunk another myth. Is there any chance that someone from the 2% bracket would bump into your ex or any memory from your past? Slim to none. You see, the 2% isn't just a number. It's an exclusive culture, a way of life. Most are wealthy, in stable marriages, or looking for something serious. Their playgrounds aren't the typical clubs or recreational spots. The latest reality shows don't dominate their conversations, gossip, or social media trends.

Speaking of social media, if your goal is to attract the 2%, presenting yourself as an exhibition piece might not be the best way forward. To them, substance matters more than the flesh. An enticing picture might get a glance, but what indeed captivates them is intelligence, authenticity, and depth. While it's absolutely one's choice on how they want to present themselves on platforms, remember that the 2% often discerns the facade from the reality.

So, where does one find these elusive 2%? They are in libraries, high-end seminars, charity events, and business conferences – places that cultivate knowledge, growth, and authenticity. Their reality is already more exhilarating than any reality show you'd watch on TV. It's a life of substance, purpose, and direction.

If you aim to be a part of this world or find a partner from this elite group, it's time to shift focus. Focus on your growth, aspirations, emotional well-being, and authenticity. Your past, your body count, is just a number. It doesn't define you. But your mindset, your values, and your vision for the future? That's what truly counts.